RADwars​
Living with Reactive Attachment Disorder, other disorders, Parental Alienation, Divorce, Toxic People, Abuse, and Addictions, all these things that destroy families - Fight for your family!
Unseen Battles
Spiritual Warfare ~ fighting the unseen battles... generational curses... sexual abuse... addictions... suicidal thoughts etc

Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might.  Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.  For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.  Stand therefore, having girded your waist with truth, having put on the breastplate of righteousness,  and having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace;  above all, taking the shield of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God; praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints—
~Ephesians 6~

Dealing with SEXUAL ABUSE
♫... He took the heart of a little girl.. And made it grow up too fast... Let your tears touch to the ground... Lay your shattered pieces down...And be amazed by how Grace can take a broken girl.. And put her back together again ..♫
Broken Girl by Matthew West

Broken Girl by Matthew West

​​Dealing with Sexual Abuse

  • Man in the Moon... A child's memory of things that happen in the night
  • Together Forever... A mock conversation... between a grown woman and the child she once was.  Reconciling with your inner child.
  • Confessions... Sometimes it's very difficult listening to the details as our adopted child remembers.
  • Hands... Memories of being molested.  Allowing Jesus to make a difference
  • Wilks... Surviving incest
  • Seeking a Daddy's Love... Abandoned by a father, looking for a father's love through your new step-dad

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LINKS ABOUT SEXUAL ABUSE

  1. The Battle Belongs to the LORD
    Spiritual Warfare - The Battle Belongs to The Lord
  2. Broken Girl by Matthew West
    ♫... He took the heart of a little girl.. And made it grow up too fast... Let your tears touch to the ground... Lay your shattered pieces down...And be amazed by how Grace can take a broken girl.. And put her back together again ..♫ Broken Girl by Matthew West

Hopelessness...
 and Suicidal Thoughts

Broken

Links for help with addictive behaviors...
Dealing with Addictions...
  • I Run....When you run from your problems in life
  • What If and Why??... Do you think you've gone too far?  Do you think that God won't forgive you??  What do you need to do to turn back?  Is it too late??
  • Why God?..  When you are angry at God for what's happened in your life.​
  • When You're Down..  How do you get back up, when you've fallen so far?

DEALING WITH OUR OWN PAST...


You Are More by Tenth Ave. North...
♫...You didn't ask for this
Nobody ever would
Caught in the middle of this dysfunction
It's your sad reality
It's your messed up family tree...♫



Family Tree by Matthew West...
♫...You didn't ask for this
Nobody ever would
Caught in the middle of this dysfunction
It's your sad reality
It's your messed up family tree...♫



  • Together Forever... What would you say if you had to talk to yourself when you were a little child... how would you be there for them and what you went through?

...Out of all the years of counselling, reading, classes, etc. I have gone through... nothing has pulled it all together... made more sense... confirmed God's Word... created real change in me than this program.  It's called  Lifeskills International  I found it at the Church I was attending while going through  DivorceCare.  It made sense of my issues... the problems in my two failed marriages... and completely made sense in the raising of my two adopted kids with severe emotional problems.  I cannot recommend this program enough.  No matter what you are going through, it will make what is going on in your relationships understandable.
KT

Self-abusive behaviors and Eating disorders...
♫... She's pulling down her long sleeves
To cover all the memories that scars leave...
She says, "maybe making me bleed 
will be the answer that could wash the slate clean... ♫
When She Cries by Britt Nicole

-Links-

(My apologies for the curse word.. but the music video is well done)... portraying self abuse...
Perfect by Pink

♫... I know the right words to say
Like "I don't feel well," "I ate before I came"
Then someone tells me how good I look
And for a moment, for a moment I am happy
But when I'm alone, no one hears me cry... ♫
Courage by Superchicks